Here it is important for the child to learn a healthy model of relationship with the environment. Instead of a mother introyectadora (that nurtures strength), it is preferable to provide that range of possibilities (toys, other forms of invitation to the relationship), that allow to maintain the idiosyncrasy of the child to the child. When in parental attitudes (verbal or non-verbal) messages are contained in do not touch, not you chupes, not are you, without discrimination, clipped its power, they inhibit your spontaneity, hindering their interest. Ultimately diminish their innate potentialities. When a child of parents incorporates psychological values; truths about himself, when they ingest and swallow without discrimination, incorporate material not assimilated, Perls (1947) called doencas. If a child incorporates by example the idea of I’m clumsy, adopts their behaviour (non-conscious) this quality as a form of response to the environment. His behavior is limited by the doencas. Have you eaten a material that can not assimilate (by its toxic content) and onwards his energies well to get rid of this material that does not gives it vitality will be implemented, or poisoning in their attempts to digest it: I clumsily behaved in this situation.
The introjection is the family inheritance from the past 5 for Goodman (1951). The situation is similar when it comes to concepts or models of behavior than physical food. Since introject means appropriating something from the environment and when this misappropriation occurs coercively is of a pathological introjection; is of a non-digestible, inasimilable content (doencas), since it impairs your ability to think and act for yourself as you atiborras your personality of atragantados pieces of this and that, you have lost the ability of think and act for yourself, since you act according to what you have said that you are, or do.6 When a child introyecta for example the idea of I’m clumsy, adopts in its not consciously this quality as a form of response to the environment, and henceforth their energies will be implemented to act accordingly with the doencas me clumsily behaved in this situation.